閒談後有感、If I ain’t Got You。
話說今日傾完計過後，都有多少反思。根據 G 說，以前的我是這樣的，如果對方因為自己發脾氣，會氹幾下。若果不是因為自己而是亂發脾氣，都會氹一兩下。氹完之後無效的話，都會係由得佢發脾氣，等冷靜晒先再傾。個期係興用「冷靜」呢個名詞，用法係話既然大家都覺得自己無錯，咁大家冷靜幾日，諗通左先再傾返計。最後當然都係無事啦。之但係人會進步既，依家當然唔會係咁啦。回歸正傳，有幾點都想分享下。1. 普通朋友和男女朋友的相處點都會有分別。如果唔清楚，可以試下以因數分解法寫返你會同普通朋友和男女朋友會做的事情。再仔細睇一睇你對普通朋友和對男女朋友既分別。如果兩者分別唔大，那麼就真的值得靜下來想一想兩者之間有甚麼分別。這也是 G 所說過的。
2. 眾樂樂還是獨樂樂呢？這個問題也和 G 討論過。其實即係咁，各有各開心既。我都的確說過如果有多一對人，其實可以玩同做既野多 D，有另一種開心既。之但係又唔可以無兩個人獨處的時間，學 G 話齋，無共同經歷又唔得喎！所以要繼續兩個人四圍去。不過若果間中可以有其他朋友仔一起都OK 既。
3. 兩個人的相處是需要互相配合。雖然都好有可能係單一方面主導，但係或多或少雙方都應該有改變既。好多時自己期望人地會做既野同現實有出入，會彈三彈四，呢個都係我時常做既衰野。之不過換個角度諗諗，其實自己想要 D 乜野呢。如果想要既野就係對方做既野，咁我地少少地都要欣賞一下。有意見既背後其實只係對方做既野唔岩心水，咁其實都無問題，只要有良好既溝通，做多一兩次咪自然岩自己心水。所以！我都唔應該下下催 G 要快手 D，應該都要慢落黎等下，互相配合。溝通係好重要，就算嬲都要聽電話，有時唔講真係唔知想點。互相體諒都重要，G 想放假既時候見下面，而我放假的時候想係屋企抖下。咁都無問題既，可以傾既。唔需要次次都出來或者次次都唔出，都唔係話計住計住邊個就邊個多，按需要！有時 D 野都係訓練來的，或者叫習慣，例如隻手伸出少少就自自然有隻手拖埋黎咁。久而久之咪就係默契，一講到呢道又要「顏一顏」。
4. 先頭講到要有共同經歷，咁大時大節無節目的確係比較令人泄氣既，特別係如果次次都係咁的話。如果加埋兩手 Fing Fing 咁又再泄多幾啖氣。之但係大時大節正日又真係洗費大，如果可以早 D 或遲 D 先慶祝又真係化算 D 既。話分兩頭，都要快快手寫埋張卡仔比 G，唔係拖下又一年拖下又一年，好快就好多年。張卡我買左，只不過未寫唧，等我。
今天的對話中，有好多事情都值得反思一下，希望大家都有得著。最後，這首歌是第四次係 Blog 中介紹，是 Alicia Keys 的「If I Ain’t Got You」，作為閒談後的總結 ↓
Some people live for the fortune
Some people live just for the fame
Some people live for the power yeah
Some people live just to play the game
Some people think that the physical things
Define what's within
I've been there before
But that life's a bore
So full of the superficial
Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you
Some people search for a fountain
Promises forever young
Some people need three dozen roses
And that's the only way to prove you love them
And in a world on a silver platter
And wondering what it means
No one to share, no one who truly cares for me
Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you
Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you
If I ain't got you with me baby
Nothing in this whole wide world don't mean a thing
If I ain't got you with me baby
Some people live just for the fame
Some people live for the power yeah
Some people live just to play the game
Some people think that the physical things
Define what's within
I've been there before
But that life's a bore
So full of the superficial
Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you
Some people search for a fountain
Promises forever young
Some people need three dozen roses
And that's the only way to prove you love them
And in a world on a silver platter
And wondering what it means
No one to share, no one who truly cares for me
Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you
Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you
If I ain't got you with me baby
Nothing in this whole wide world don't mean a thing
If I ain't got you with me baby
我想一起的背後並不是因為某單一原因，而是一個整體，包括長處短處。
面皮薄所以講少少，我倆繼續好好相愛噢 ~
That’s All.
Updated On 20/11/2010 01:57:50
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shirley_tong said :
20/11/2010 02:09:50
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我厚面皮d, 我講多幾次~ 我好愛豬, 好愛 victor !~ 我倆繼續好好相愛噢 : > ~